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🗓️ 22 July 2021
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What happens when we suppress our anger? And what if we tried to work with it instead? Our guest tries a practice to harness her inner fierceness to care for herself.
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0:25.0 | My daughter was in preschool, was building castles every morning with flocks and ribbons, |
0:34.0 | and there was just one child who would every morning come in and knock it down over and over again. |
0:40.0 | His parents were always there and they never stopped him. |
0:44.0 | They would just come at after and their comment was just a litany of platitudes and stereotypes. |
0:50.0 | Boys will be boys, they're so destructive, he can't control himself. |
0:55.0 | My daughter tried saying no and then she tried body blocking him and asking him nothing worked. |
1:00.0 | And so then she got really angry and I realized that if she acted out in that anger, she would become the problem. |
1:11.0 | What happens when we suppress anger and what would happen if we try to work with it instead? |
1:20.0 | Welcome to the Science of Happiness. |
1:22.0 | I'm Serena Chen, Professor and Chair of the Psychology Department at UC Berkeley, filling in this week for DAC or Keltner. |
1:29.0 | Today we're going to explore how the practice of self-compassion can help us stand up for ourselves after we've been wronged. |
1:37.0 | Our guess is Soraya Shameli, an award-winning writer and activist, an author of Rage Becomes Her, the Power of Women's Anger. |
1:46.0 | Soraya joins us after trying a practice to help identify and channel feelings of anger rather than suppressing or feeling bad about them. |
1:54.0 | Soraya, thanks so much for joining us today. |
1:57.0 | Thank you, Serena. |
1:58.0 | One of the big themes in your book, Rage Becomes Her, is how women and men are perceived so differently when they get angry. |
2:06.0 | People don't tend to look at the source of women's anger. |
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