Don’t Argue: Use These 9 Rules of Engagement
Understanding Today's Narcissist
Christine Hammond, MS, LMHC
4.6 • 602 Ratings
🗓️ 19 March 2021
⏱️ 18 minutes
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Summary
It was clear that after 7 years of marriage, Jack and Jill still loved each other. But they way they solved problems, or rather, the way they didn’t solve problems, was destroying their marriage. The last argument ended in a physical altercation and a wrestling match that left them ashamed and humiliated. Neither had ever engaged in this manner before so the shock of how quickly they escalated took them by surprise.
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| 1:44.1 | And now here's your host, Christine Hammond. |
| 1:54.3 | Hi, and welcome back. So today we're going to be talking about not arguing with your narcissist. |
| 2:06.4 | Rather, let's follow these nine rules of engagement. I can't count the number of times I've had someone come to me and ask, how do I confront my narcissistic spouse, boss, child, friend in a way that allows me to feel |
| 2:15.5 | like I am being heard and can reduce conflict instead of |
| 2:20.4 | escalating it. So we're going to talk about what I call the nine rules of engagement. And I'm |
| 2:26.5 | intentionally using the word engagement instead of argument because I want you to think of this |
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