People will sometimes lie to themselves enough in order to be the good guy in the story that they genuinely believe their own lies.

It's Vila Benson, your favorite meme queen and the big sit you didn't ask for, but see them.

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But anyway, welcome back to a brand new Ask Voletta.

You are listening to almost adulting, larger self-love podcast and movement.

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Everything in between Vialeta, giving you that

Russian tough love you may not want to hear but best believe you're going to need. And today I'm

welcome you back to another episode where you basically email, call, text, DM your questions

about dating, about life, and I hope you through it. First, I, this is really funny, I asked you guys before to send me the dumbest thing that you did for a man.

So I wanted to cover that first, because it kind of reminds me of a profession corner, so let's go.

Breathing. Losing my time. I flew across the country, loved him, pretended to like, and I went hiking and camping

to post my Instagram to get his attention. Dimmed my light. I changed religions for him, waste of my time.

I cleaned his whole apartment and he still dumped me. I got married to him. Texted him and he left me

on red. Trust me, it could get worse than that. Like you could triple text like I do.

I co-signed a car with him. I work for him. I lost way for him. I drove two hours to see him while we

were in a talking stage and he goes to me. Well, you gotta stop giving men wifey duties,

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