Does Your Husband Hate You? The Reality of Settling, Suffering & Shame in Marriage

To My Sisters

Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Education, Relationships

4.9 • 856 Ratings

🗓️ 25 May 2025

⏱️ 68 minutes

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In this episode, we catch you up on life lately, and ask the provocative question: Do Men Hate Women? We unpack the deeper truths behind settling, attraction, and preferences in modern relationships. We explore the complex tension between societal standards and personal desires and we also confront the uncomfortable reality of Christian women giving God bad PR when marriage is presented as a life of suffering rather than partnership. With honesty and care, we discuss how fear, pressure, and romanticised ideals can lead women to settle for less than they deserve, and whether God can genuinely shift our desires, including how we view physical attraction.

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0:28.3	beauty we are going to be talking about whether men hates women they'll be be like, I was attracted to petite light skin and then he and she came looking like a
0:42.0	gorilla.
0:42.8	The worst thing is when they outline what their spec is.
0:46.7	And you look at the wife and you think, big back, dark skin, her clothes weren't nice, her hair
0:53.6	weren't nice, but I knew she'd be a good mother ironing
0:56.4	clothes for her husband knowing that he was going to go and see his side chick yeah i knew she'd
1:01.2	make a great wife but she was ugly i brought one of my close friends and at the bride
1:07.8	i noticed him gravitating towards her but brushed it off as overthinking.
1:16.3	Hello and welcome to the To My Sisters podcast. I'm Courtney.
1:19.3	And I'm Renee and we are your online sisters and hosts of The Two My Sisters podcast.
1:23.4	We are all about promoting the wellness, growth and development of a community of sisters around the world.
1:28.9	And in today's podcast episode, we are going to be talking about whether men hate women.
1:35.9	Weather, whether question, the great question.
1:37.9	Oh, the reality, the alleged reality of physical attraction, preferences, settling, endurance, pain and suffering.
1:46.2	Yes, specifically that.
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