Does The Amount Of Previous Partners In Your Life Affect Who You End Up With?
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🗓️ 21 May 2024
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| 0:00.0 | The first one is |
| 0:02.0 | on a couple of terms I'm not entirely sure about. |
| 0:05.0 | The first one is called Pear bonding, Cayley. |
| 0:08.0 | Yeah, I never heard of it before either. |
| 0:11.0 | It was, um, I was a bit shocked but I saw it this morning and I was like, oh, that's perfect |
| 0:16.6 | Bert show content right there. Is it though? Yeah, I mean I know people drag their previous relationships into their new relationships or at least those experiences |
| 0:28.0 | but I've never been one to really compare my exes to my current or my previous experiences like if I got cheated on or which I hadn't but if I got |
| 0:39.9 | If I had to deal with some BS in a previous relationship, I wouldn't expect that the new relationship |
| 0:45.8 | would bring the same type of baggage. Does that make sense? |
| 0:49.0 | Yeah, so here's her definition of parabonting. You You know if you sleep with more than five guys |
| 0:54.4 | your chance of a happy marriage after 10 years it goes from 80% to 25% because |
| 0:59.3 | the more men you sleep with you lose your ability to bond with each one. |
| 1:03.6 | Pair bonding. |
| 1:04.2 | Yeah, it's pair bonding. |
| 1:05.1 | So if you sleep with one guy, |
| 1:07.2 | you're gonna compare the next guy to him. |
| 1:08.6 | If you sleep with 10 guys, you compare all 10. |
| 1:10.6 | If you sleep with 20, you compare all 20. You're not likely to be divorced but you're more likely to |
| 1:14.5 | leave if you did that. So your husband might pay for it because you're sleeping with your |
| 1:19.5 | husband wishing it was the other guy. That was from Reclaim masculinity on Instagram. |
| 1:25.0 | Does the same apply to men? |
| 1:27.0 | I don't know, I just, I don't, I'm personally not wired like that, |
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