Does Our First Date Anniversary Count?
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 26 January 2026
⏱️ 55 minutes
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Summary
This week on Cohosts, we dive into a debate about which anniversaries actually matter once you’re married. We also answer a listener question about five great dates followed by sudden uncertainty, what it really means when someone says they “need to think,” and how to handle it without spiraling or settling. Plus: social media chaos, internet trends we don’t understand, surprise date planning for friends, and why timing and communication matter so much in dating and relationships.
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| 0:00.0 | Now we may begin. Hey guys, welcome back for another episode of Co-host for Life, the Monday |
| 0:06.3 | episode of Seeing Other People, where Jake and I talk about what's going on in our lives |
| 0:10.4 | and our marriage. We answer listener questions as fast as we possibly can so that you can get |
| 0:14.9 | the answers week by week. But we are so excited to have you here. It is a mega blizzard snowstorm right now today in |
| 0:23.1 | New York. And we're excited. We're going to have like, we've been really looking forward to this all |
| 0:27.9 | week, I think. We've been like, it's an excuse to stay in and do nothing. And that's all we ever |
| 0:34.7 | want in life. Yeah, I think everyone's pretty excited about this. I think |
| 0:37.9 | the conversation about like buying a bunch of groceries is really funny. I heard that from a few |
| 0:42.0 | people where it's like, yeah, it's one day. You're going to hunker down for one day and then like |
| 0:46.0 | the grocery store will be open again. It's interesting because I kept seeing posts about it. |
| 0:51.6 | Like not, no one was posting on their story. |
| 0:55.6 | Actually, I'm making this up because I haven't been on social media since Friday afternoon, |
| 1:01.2 | so I don't know what I'm talking about. |
| 1:03.0 | That's why I've only seen, like, newsy memes of grocery store shelves being completely empty. |
| 1:11.5 | But I went into Target yesterday and I went into Gristides, which is our local supermarket. |
| 1:17.1 | They're both full. |
| 1:17.9 | Both were pretty full. |
| 1:19.4 | Yeah. |
| 1:19.6 | To be fair, nobody really goes to Gristidis. |
| 1:21.3 | But yeah. |
| 1:21.8 | Yeah. |
| 1:22.7 | It's so overpriced. |
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