Listen, it's the Bert show.

When you listen to Abby's podcast, The Break Up, Breakdown,

this is a real good run right here.

And this is the one that I'm always sort of questioning also,

which is more important, like compatibility or chemistry?

Oh yeah, and especially when you've been as single as long as I

have been which is forever you hear one thing more than anything else and it's

you're just a little bit too picky and I think the reason that I'm picky is because I'm kind of

of looking for that spark I'm looking for that intense chemistry that everyone

talks about. So before we dive in and I know that you have a professional that weighs in on this before we even get in on that to you guys which one is more important

compatibility or chemistry.

I'm going chemistry. I feel like compatibility is important but if without chemistry man you

yeah I don't have anything I have to say chemistry I think you can when it comes to

compatibility I think both are important before a romantic relationship. I feel like chemistry edges

out compatibility ever so slightly merely because even if you aren't

compatible if the chemistry is there you can learn to appreciate the other

person for who they are.

I could argue on both sides of this I think I've been in relationships that

lacked one or the other hope equally failed. I think that's why I've been single

for so long is because I'm unwilling to get rid of one for the other.

Like for me it's it's sort of like comparing it to a plane.

Like do you want your plane to be able to get you up and into the sky and

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