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All Out in the Open

Does accepting my orientation change who I am?

All Out in the Open

All Out in the Open, Questions from the Closet

Lds, Lgbt, Religion & Spirituality, Transgender, Christ, Church Of Jesus Christ, Society & Culture, Lgbtq, Gay, Christianity, Latter-day Saint, Faith, Mormon

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 5 April 2022

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Derek Driggs joins Ben and Charlie for a conversation about identity and coming out.

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0:00.0

Welcome to Questions from the Closet. I'm Charlie Bird.

0:10.0

And I'm Ben Shalatti.

0:11.0

Each episode we discuss a question that we commonly get asked is LGBTQ Plus Larity Saints.

0:15.0

We're not trying to answer this question or come to a consensus but simply sharing our perspectives.

0:20.0

Today's question is, does accepting my orientation change who I am?

0:24.0

So, Charlie and I are not terribly diverse and we share many opinions and life experiences.

0:28.0

For example, we both had code words for saying that we were gay.

0:31.0

However, there are some pretty big differences. For example, Ben's was a lot more creative and exciting than mine was.

0:38.0

Mine was Hannah Montana.

0:41.0

Best of both worlds?

0:43.0

Well, that isn't exactly how it happened but it fit in later.

0:45.0

So, I've come up to like eight people, like just eight people, then I went and lived in Mexico for the summer.

0:50.0

And I would sky with my friend Craig and I, when I would get home from work, there was nothing on TV,

0:54.0

except for the Disney Channel. So I'd watch Hannah Montana.

0:58.0

And I loved it. It was so funny. It's way better in Spanish.

1:01.0

And so I was like, tell how much I love Hannah Montana.

1:03.0

I was like, wait, don't tell anyone about Hannah Montana. I was like, oh, that's a great code word.

1:07.0

Because you get the best of both worlds and she's got the secret that we have her close friends and family know about.

1:11.0

Nice.

1:12.0

Yeah. Nice.

1:13.0

You can chill it out, take it slow, then rock out the show.

1:16.0

That's the theme song.

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