Welcome to Let it be easy with Susie Moore.

What are you ignoring?

Ooh.

Well I ask this question, if I'm in an intimate conversation with somebody

and they say that they're not happy with an area of their life or there's you know maybe something that's come out of the blue

that they are not satisfied with or maybe something's happened to a friend or to a relative

or you know all of a sudden they're broken up with whatever it may be when there's a big

external change that's unwanted that's unwelcome in our lives I love to ask this

question what are you ignoring?

And what have you been ignoring that maybe has led to this?

The reason I love this question is because so often it's inconvenient to deal with the stuff that's going to require our energy,

require our focus, maybe require us to be uncomfortable

and or make a decision that doesn't feel good,

feel scary, feels uncertain. I want to give you a couple of examples to really

illustrate this. I'll never forget, working with a lady years ago as her life coach and her son was in trouble with the police for

drug possession.

It's a long story I have it all came out but she came to me and she was like I cannot believe it, I cannot believe that he is taking drugs, I don't understand if he's sharing drugs with his friends, which counts as dealing drugs.

And she was shocked, of course, very concerned and

and look being a mother is the heart being a parent the hardest job right

being responsible for another human you, wanting to do the right thing, making sure

that you know they're protected, they're taken care of.

When Haran I spoke about it, I was like, I understand this news is really surprising and upsetting to you.

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