Do You Really Find Love When You Least Expect It? with Erica Shea
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 11 October 2022
⏱️ 66 minutes
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Summary
I’m joined by Erica Shea, San Diego radio star on The Geena the Latina And Frankie V. Morning Show, and host of the podcast “Oversharing with Erica Shea.” Erica and I chat about dating while moving to a new city, meeting people IRL, and accepting the bare minimum. Erica tells us the crazy story of how she met her current partner (IRL!), why her mindset was different when she met him, and how they’ve made their long-distance relationship work. We discuss asking for your needs and whether or not there’s a difference between being exclusive and being in a relationship.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:05.4 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back for another episode of seeing other people. |
| 0:10.8 | First of all, if you are new here, and this is your first time listening to the show, |
| 0:14.7 | I couldn't be happier to have you in this community. |
| 0:16.7 | It's really a family. |
| 0:18.0 | Make sure you're following along on Instagram at seeing other people. That's |
| 0:21.7 | where the good stuff happens. We get all the AMAs, the Q&As. We're all, you know, coming together and |
| 0:27.1 | sharing advice. And it's such a special place. And the listeners here are so amazing. So to anyone who's |
| 0:33.4 | new, welcome to anyone who is not new. I love you all. And I am so excited to keep on keeping on with you. |
| 0:40.0 | A few little updates. I officiated Kirwan's wedding the other weekend. Oh my God. It was absolutely |
| 0:45.7 | without a doubt the most special thing I have ever done. I didn't really get through it without |
| 0:51.6 | crying, but that's okay. I think at one point I started to choke up and I was like, oh boy, and everybody laughed. It was such a magical special thing. I think the best part about it. Okay, so backing up for those who don't know, my best friend, we met on the first day of freshman year of college, Kerwin. She's been on a few episodes. Her name Sarah, but we call her Kerwin, though now her name's not Kirwin anymore. But we've been best friends. |
| 1:14.7 | We've lived together over the years. We travel a ton together. And she and her now husband, Sam, |
| 1:21.0 | met on Hinge in 2018. And last year, they asked me if I would officiate their wedding for them. |
| 1:27.3 | And I was in absolute shock. |
| 1:29.4 | Obviously, I've never done this before you guys. But I am so grateful that I had that opportunity. |
| 1:35.8 | And if you ever have the chance to do this, I highly recommend. This is one of those things. |
| 1:39.5 | It was on my lifelong bucket list. Yes, I obviously have a lifelong bucket list. |
| 1:43.1 | If you know anything about me, |
| 1:44.3 | know that I have lists of literally everything. And I mean everything. That'd be a really funny |
| 1:50.4 | episode to go through lists from my phone from like 15 years ago. But it was so special. And I never |
| 1:57.6 | expected that I would actually get the chance to do this. And I did. So that also helped me get over my fear of public speaking, which I do have. You guys, literally, I would run out of presentations in high school. Like, I'd get up to the front of the class and words wouldn't come out. And I'd start hysterically crying and I'd run out. That's the real Alana done. And everyone's like, oh, but you host a podcast, |
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