Do You Have To Love Yourself First? with Ken Reid
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 19 November 2024
⏱️ 55 minutes
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Summary
Ken Reid returns to 'Seeing Other People' to discuss various pieces of dating advice. Together with we delve into the pros and cons of popular dating tips and phrases, offering different perspectives on what might work, what doesn't, and why context is crucial. Topics include the validity of statements like 'if they wanted to, they would,' 'the best way to get over someone is by getting under someone else,' and many more.
00:00 - 02:34 Welcome Back, Ken!
02:34 - 03:59 Debunking Popular Dating Advice
03:59 - 10:29 High Value Partner Debate
10:29 - 17:39 If He Wanted To, He Would
17:39 - 23:58 Finding Love When You Least Expect It
23:58 - 25:12 The Healing Power of Meeting New People
25:12 - 27:47 The Importance of Indifference in Breakups
27:47 - 30:38 Navigating Avoidant and Narcissistic Exes
30:38 - 35:05 The Numbers Game in Dating
35:05 - 37:39 The Myth of Loving Yourself First
37:39 - 45:52 When You Know, You Know: Debunked
45:52 - 47:31 Finding Dating Advice That Works for You
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back to another episode of Seeing Other People. |
| 0:10.1 | Together, we're navigating modern dating alongside experts and real-life daters who are sharing their stories. |
| 0:16.0 | Don't have a date for tonight? No problem. Come learn, laugh, and maybe even cry along with us as we navigate the |
| 0:22.1 | dating scene together. Ken Reed, welcome back to seeing other people. Thank you, Alana. I was very |
| 0:28.4 | excited to have the invitation to return. Loved our chat last time too. And yeah, super stoked to be back |
| 0:35.0 | and talk about all things, dating advice, the good, the bad, |
| 0:37.9 | and everything in between. I already could tell. Like before the first time we've recorded, |
| 0:43.4 | I was like, there's so much for us to talk about. And then during our first recording, it was like, |
| 0:48.3 | yeah, we're going to have to do another. Like, we have unfinished business. We have a whole slew |
| 0:53.1 | of things that we both, I think, feel very similar about. But we have unfinished business. We have a whole slew of things that we both, I think, |
| 0:55.6 | feel very similar about, but we need to put our feelings out there. And that's what we're |
| 1:01.1 | going to do today. So I'm very excited. And I just, I appreciate you so much and your time. |
| 1:06.1 | For those who may have missed your first episode, guys, pause this, go back to it. It's called |
| 1:11.1 | Are They Avoidant or Are They an Asshole? And then play this again. But just for those who |
| 1:15.7 | are less familiar with you, can you just give them the spiel, the Ken lowdown? |
| 1:21.5 | Easy. So my name is Ken. I am a counselor here in Sydney, Australia. I help clients to navigate difficult |
| 1:30.5 | relational experiences, to recover from really bad breakups, to help them become more secure in |
| 1:36.0 | their attachment style. And most of the content I fixate on at the moment is to help people |
| 1:40.7 | understand the spectrum of avoid an attachment, particularly the severe end, |
| 1:46.0 | and how that shows up in dating, as we discussed in our last episode. |
| 1:50.0 | Does it? |
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