Do We Really Want Vulnerable Men?
LOVERS by shan
LOVERS by shan
5 • 5.5K Ratings
🗓️ 20 October 2021
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
Women say they want a man who is open and willing to be vulnerable, but is this really true? Back in 2019, Shan participated in a YouTube discussion with Aba and Preach where they covered this very topic.The conversation amassed over 1.3M views and nearly 9000 comments. Two years later, Shan, Aba & Preach re-visit this under-represented dialogue about why some men don't yet feel safe to show their vulnerable side with their partners.
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| 0:00.0 | One, two, okay, let's start with cool driving sounds, dramatic music, a woman whispers, and then a hawk! |
| 0:09.0 | Yes, keep it simple. |
| 0:11.0 | Just like the affordable Dacha Sandero, packed with everything you need and nothing you don't. |
| 0:15.0 | You control your maps and music hands-free with your smartphone through our clever media control app. |
| 0:20.0 | Because why fork out for a big flashy screen when you've already got one in your pocket? |
| 0:23.0 | Dacha, good thinking. Discover more at dacha.co.uk |
| 0:27.0 | Subject to availability, compatible device required. |
| 0:31.0 | My offense on F-man should be more vulnerable and intimacy. |
| 0:36.0 | Because it's been my experience that being vulnerable opens you up for a lot of ridicule. |
| 0:42.0 | You can't be vulnerable. You can't show your weaknesses. You can't show the cracks in your foundation. |
| 0:47.0 | They don't want to see that. They say they want to see that, but they don't want to see that. |
| 0:50.0 | Y'all, fizzin' friends! What's up, lovers and friends? Boy, oh boy, am I happy that you're here! |
| 0:57.0 | My name is Shamboodram, and I'm a sexologist who's been working as a public figure educator for 15 years. |
| 1:03.0 | I've talked about sex and relationships everywhere from the view to playboy, from YouTube to Netflix, but this right here, this is my very first podcast. |
| 1:12.0 | For the first time in my career here and only here, I'm going to be combining my educational backgrounds in sexology, psychology, |
| 1:19.0 | and journalism to deep dive into all things intimacy, which I define as anything under the umbrella of sex, relationships, and attachments. |
| 1:28.0 | All the shit that you know I care about so deeply and so do you. That's why we're here in this space, together. |
| 1:35.0 | Every week, I, Shamboodram, intimacy expert and sexologists will bring you real knowledge from research and the lived experiences of my guests. |
| 1:43.0 | Today's guests are Abyn preach so that you can improve your intimate life. Today, we are tackling the question, |
| 1:51.0 | should men be more emotionally vulnerable, especially with their romantic partners? |
| 1:56.0 | Is that really what you want? A man who talks about his feelings all the time? You know, right? |
| 2:02.0 | In 2019, Abyn preach who are cultural commentators with over 1.5 million subscribers asked me to contribute to a piece they were making titled, |
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