Hey, men, welcome back to the man talk show.

Connor Beaton here.

And today I'm going to be teaching and talking about one of the most important tools or

principles when it comes to elevating the sexual connection and sexual intimacy in your relationship.

And I have taught this to a lot of men.

I have found that the guys that actually execute on it consistently see a massive change

in the connection with their partner.

And I'm going to get straight into it.

I'm going to teach you what it is,

why it's important, and then how to actually execute on this. So what I want to talk to you about is what I have called expectationless desire, expectationless desire. And I'll just define that

for you straight up front, which expectationless desire is really about

bringing your desire, your arousal to your partner without the expectation that it needs to go all

the way, without the expectation that it needs to be a home run or it leads to, you know,

needs to lead to some type of outcome.

Because what happens for a lot of men is we bring expectations

attached to our desire. So when you feel aroused, when you feel, you know, you're maybe ready

to go with your partner or you're desiring them, you can bring a pretty intense level of

expectations energetically, verbally that coincide with that.

And here's why this is important. Here's why this really matters. I have worked with so many

couples over the years where one person wants to have more sexual connection than the other

person in terms of quantity and maybe even quality.

And there is a big discrepancy oftentimes between what one person is wanting and what the other person is wanting.

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