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Hey, it's going on. Welcome to the chaline show super pumped. You're here. Today, I just want to have a conversation about something I'm trying to work on, something I want to be more of. And that is a thoughtful person.

Someone who thinks of others first, someone who's intentional, someone who just makes life easier for other people. But even beyond that, like makes people feel special or seen or appreciated.

I think this is something all of us can work on. I know it's something that like there's certain areas of my life and even with certain people where I'm more thoughtful than I am with others. And I mean, I guess that makes sense. Right. We wouldn't have the same relationship with all people.

But I think it's a really important characteristic. And it's one that I got to witness in person a lot this last week. And especially over the last couple of months, you know, planning these weddings for our kids having these celebrations, thinking about other times in my life.

I guess just realizing that there are people who are really thoughtful and there are people who are really thoughtless. And I think we're all sometimes somewhere in that spectrum. But I definitely want to be someone who is thought of as being thoughtful. And it goes way beyond just like buying a nice gift. Right. Like being thoughtful is so much more than that. And so I'm going to talk about some of the things that I observed.

And some of the ways that I'm going to become a more thoughtful person. I hope to be. All right. Let's get to it.

Okay. So on a scale of one to 10, let's just take inventory. One being absolutely horrible. Very selfish and 10 being mother Teresa. How thoughtful are you as a person generally speaking. And I know this is different in certain situations and with certain people.

But like if you consider the people you work with and your friends and family members, like if you put them all in a room and you said, okay, I'm going to guess at how they would score me scale one to 10.

What score they're going to give you. And maybe we should break this down. Like maybe you should first just think about people that you work with. How would they score you.

And then maybe consider your family. How would they score you in terms of thoughtfulness. And then your friends because sometimes we show up differently in different situations. And I'm going to be as transparent as possible in this episode. So I'm going to start with myself.

Like when I think about how my friends would rate me. I think they would score me very high. And I could be wrong. But I'm intentional with them. And I think about it. I think about which means then I try to be thoughtful with them.

But it also kind of depends on the level of my friendship. Like I mean, there are lots of people who I'm friendly with. And then there are those people who are, you know, my really, really tight, knit closest friends. And I think about the things that I do, which are very intentional.

And we all have friends circles, right? And then there are friends who are more of acquaintances or friends who use our newer friends. I don't know how like my newer friends might view me, but I can say with a great deal of confidence that my friends who are low maintenance friends.

We've been friends for a very long time. Shout out to Carson for that term. But the friends I've been with my writer dies, you know, for a really long time. I'm pretty confident they would score me pretty high in terms of being thoughtful.

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