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U Up?

Do Guys Care Less Once It’s Official?

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.814.5K Ratings

🗓️ 12 October 2022

⏱️ 94 minutes

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Summary

Jared and Jordana are back in the studio for this week’s episode, and they start with a recap of Jordana’s trip to Hawaii and a look into her family dynamic with 9 siblings. Jared updates Jordana on his dating goals from his latest U Up? With Benefits episode. The first emailer asks if guys care less once the relationship becomes official after noticing her new boyfriend has been putting in a lot less effort. Should she “match his energy” or speak up about her annoyance? The Awkward Sexual Encounter is a Lizzie McGuire style escapade. Later, J&J read an email from a listener who can’t stop obsessing over exes who seemed to disappear after the breakup. She’s in a happy relationship, so why can’t she stop trying to keep tabs on them? They finish the episode with a round of Red Flag or Deal Breaker about missing teeth, bluelight glasses, and dating app openers. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome back to the U-Up podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham and I am Jared

0:07.1

Freed so good to be back here with you Jordana. You're back from Hawaii. Welcome back.

0:11.7

How was the trip? The pictures look wonderful. You're beautifully taned. Thank you. Thank you.

0:16.9

I've been you know, they're the second person to I've been home for four days and they're the only the second person to say that to me.

0:22.0

That's right. Jorge and Maddie. Yes.

0:25.0

Yet to mention it. You noticed it. Yeah. The trip was great. I love Hawaii. Yes. Really? Who was that? I

0:34.3

have feeling like it might be overrated but I did not find that. Okay. To the people

0:39.5

Hawaii we you know we want to be careful. Yeah. I mean no it was it was a great mix of like

0:44.6

relax the cool thing about I mean there's just there is a lot of culture there

0:48.9

which does give it like a different unique feel to like going to the Caribbean or

0:53.2

something like that. And you're in the United States too. That's got to be a little bit weird.

0:58.0

That's another part of it because it's so beautiful. It looks so different than anything you see in the United States.

1:03.6

So it does feel kind of crazy that you are there. I would think and I've never been to Hawaii.

1:09.3

So I have no idea. I'm a dummy idiot. Don't know anything about the place other than what you're like.

1:15.3

I understand why you're like I maybe it's overrated because you're like it's it's on a pedestal.

1:20.7

Right. It feels like a little basic or cliche maybe the most beautiful honeymoon spot.

1:25.7

Like it takes that mountain top perch and I would assume it's weird to be on a U.S. highway there.

1:32.3

They don't even really have highways. Okay. Yeah. Okay. That was the other thing because when we rent we rented a car

1:39.8

and I was like do we need like an easy pass. She's like there's no like real highways or like tolls here.

1:44.8

So first lesson immediately. Right. But I mean, yes, we're not in Long Island anymore.

1:51.8

Exactly. So we yeah, we rented a car and it's the cool thing that they have like a like driving tours and hiking.

2:01.4

They have this thing called the road to Hana. Okay. And you can download this app which basically knows where your car is

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