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Do all men come back?

I've been meaning to create this episode for a while because everyone has this question.

Whether it's on my TikTok or whether it's in my Instagram DMs,

I'm constantly flooded in my inbox with these questions of,

is my person going to come back because I'm dying without them and I need them back into my life?

Listen, I think this question is a very broad question and there's so many different stories and scenarios that go along with this question.

So it's not like a one size fits all answer.

I think for the most part they do, but in varying degrees and the circumstances are always different,

it's a case by case thing.

For the most part, I've had a pretty solid success rate at having guys come back into my life.

But the thing is this, none of those guys were actually meant to stay in my life.

The universe was trying to kick them out for a reason.

The universe was literally trying to protect me and say,

this person is not right for you and you should let them go.

And if you don't let them go, I'm gonna kick them out of your life for you.

None of these guys were meant to stay.

So when they did come back, whether it was through a text message or they called me or DM or a Snapchat, unfortunately,

I was like, either already so far moved on and passed it already or I would try entertaining it again because I really liked them.

And it would just end up in the same exact place as the last time.

It was a dead end and it was pointless because they didn't deserve me.

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