The virtue to ditch or date. So this dude's recently divorced doesn't think he's ever going

to get married again. Can she assume that this dude might change for her or not? And

she's wondering you got for you guys one a five five virtue. Um, if she should ditch

this guy or continue to date him. Kristen's got the email. Jason and I have been dating

for only about a month. In that one month, we hung out about seven or eight times to

say that I like him would be an understatement. He really is pretty awesome. Whenever I leave

him, I feel like I'm on cloud nine and can hardly stop thinking about him. Sorry, I had to

burp. I think he feels the same way about me. He has told me he likes me a lot, but we

are still in the stages of trying to play it cool. Jason is also divorced. He has been

divorced for about a year. He stated a few people in the last year, but said that it's only

been a few days with each person. So he has, so he has spent more time with me than he

has with any other woman that he has dated this year. In that same conversation, we started

talking about relationship stages, et cetera. He ended up telling me that he could see himself

being in a serious relationship with someone, but that he never wants to get married again.

He said that the end of his marriage and his divorce was so miserable that he'd rather

just never risk experiencing that ever again. I was crushed. I really want to be married.

I can't imagine living my entire life and never getting married. I know a lot of people

who get divorced have that initial reaction, but what I want to know is if most people

grow out of that feeling and start to reconsider the idea of marriage, should I continue dating

him with the assumption that he will eventually come around to the idea of marriage again?

Or do I need to walk away from someone I really like? Thanks for some opinions.

Brock.

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