Lisa, do you think I might have married the wrong person? This is a question that can come up in my

therapy sessions and more often than you would think. If your relationship has been feeling hard

to the point that maybe you're worried you married the wrong person, I'm so glad you're here

with me today. Because on this episode of love, happiness, and success,

we are tackling the four essential questions that will help you get clarity, including

around compatibility, communication, alignment, and the opportunities for growth.

Musical inspo from the band Froth.

This song is called Gone.

I am currently kind of obsessed with Froth. If you would like to be too,

you can learn more about them on their bandcamp page, froth.bancamp.com. So let's dive right into this.

And the first thing you should know is that relationships are all hard. Every couple goes through rough patches, where we have to change and grow if it's going to work. And before you've done that work, it's really normal to have doubts,

particularly if you don't know how to create positive change in your relationship and what's

happening currently doesn't really feel sustainable. By the end of our time together today,

you'll have some new ideas, also some new things to try, and a clear roadmap for how to do

this work, either with your partner or on your own, so that this

gets better one way or the other. If this is your first time with me, I'm so glad you're here. I'm

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby. My background, I'm a licensed psychologist. I'm also a licensed marriage

and family therapist, a board-certified coach.

I'm the founder of growing self-counseling and coaching, and the host of love, happiness,

and success, where I'm here every week helping people just like you grow into the type of person

that knows how to create the love, happiness, and success you deserve.

And we all know that when you really do want all of it, create relationships, a meaningful

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