The Burt Show.

All right, so Abby, you said the wrong thing to the right person or the other way around?

Well, it's the question I've been asking myself ever since I've started getting on the dating

apps is, you know, when you want to make a good impression on somebody that you haven't had the

chance to meet in person you gotta you gotta have like the right thing you want to make a

good impression you want them to look at that message and go oh this girl is

clever and witty and funny and she's also super hot I want to take her out for a drink and I find myself

overthinking making these first moves especially on an app like Bumble and there's this saying from the internet that everyone kind of repeats to you when you start

overthinking your opening line that you want to say.

And that it's always, you can't say the wrong thing to the right person and I had to actually put that to

the test this weekend because that like when you really let it sink in and

resonate that makes say it again you can't say the wrong thing to the right person

because if someone's actually into you,

if someone's right for you, like you could say anything

and they're just gonna be happy that you're sliding into the d' be happy that you're sliding into the

bumble messages that you're texting them or approaching to them at a bar

they're just going to be happy that they're you're there because they're

interested in you and so I had to tell myself that over and over this weekend because I

matched with someone that I was really interested in and it was on Bumble so

you've only got 24 hours for them to see the message and for them to respond

so you've got one chance to see the message and for them to respond. So you've got one chance to say the

right thing and normally I would just kind of do like a softball because I'm a little

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