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Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Desire, Divinity, and Intimate Love | A Conversation with Faith Matters

Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Self-improvement, Education, Mental Health, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.4978 Ratings

🗓️ 16 August 2025

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

In this NEW episode of the Faith Matters podcast, Dr. Jennifer joins Tim and Aubrey Chaves to share insights from her long-awaited book That We Might Have Joy. They discuss how sexuality is not a distraction from spirituality, but a pathway to it—that intimacy and desire can help us grow into deeper integrity, more honest marriages, and more profound faith. You can PREORDER YOUR COPY of the book HERE. If you'd like to get a signed copy, JOIN US AT RESTORE (use code JFF2025 to SAVE 10%!). We will be having a special book launch event on the evening of September 25th and Dr. Finlayson-Fife will be on the main stage on September 27th—you don't wait to miss it! 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Reaching beyond ourselves is the antidepressant of life. It's where hope resides. It's where

0:04.9

faith resides. It's where intimacy is, but it's risky and it's scary for us. And so a lot of us get

0:11.4

married in the hope for that communion, but then we do it from the ego. We do our marriage from

0:15.5

the place of safety and self-protection. And we understandably, but to our detriment, interfere with what

0:24.1

the marriage needs most, something soulful and real, something that's really about a kind

0:30.3

of connection that allows us to touch not just one another souls, but the divine.

0:43.6

Hi everyone, Dr. Jennifer here.

0:48.9

The pre-order link for my book that we might have joy is now available and it's in the show notes.

0:49.8

In this interview, I got to sit down and talk with Tim and Aubrey from Faith Matters about the book,

0:54.8

and it was a great conversation. I hope you enjoy listening to it as much as we enjoyed the

1:00.0

conversation with each other. If you'd prefer a signed copy, you can join me on September 25th

1:05.8

at the Restore conference. Just click on the link in the show notes for ticket information.

1:12.9

All right. Well, welcome back. Jennifer, we're so excited to have you back on the podcast.

1:16.9

Yeah, thanks for having. We don't take these conversations for granted. And yeah, I've been thinking

1:21.9

this week about how much I've learned from you over the last five years. And so I just have a

1:26.6

really full heart. I'm so excited to

1:28.6

get to talk about your book. And we've been waiting for this for a long time. So welcome back.

1:32.2

Thank you. I think maybe a place where we could start is something that feels, it feels common now

1:37.8

because I've heard you teach this so skillfully that it's like in my bones now. But I think maybe

1:43.3

a good entry point is if you could

1:45.2

just talk about embodiment and our theology, because I think there's something there that

1:49.9

our tradition has to offer about the integration of spirituality and sexuality. And so maybe we can

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