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Tara Brach

Desire and Addiction: Voices of Longing Calling You Home, Part 1

Tara Brach

Tara Brach

Tara, Dharma, Selfhelp, Talks, Spiritual, Buddhist, Insight, Audio, Tarabrach, Mindfulness, Rain, Psychology, Compassion, Vipassana, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Meditation, Guided, Brach, Buddhism, Religion & Spirituality

4.810.6K Ratings

🗓️ 12 September 2025

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Desire is intrinsic to all living forms – the urge to exist and flourish. It turns to suffering when, due to unmet needs, it contracts, intensifies and separates us from our full aliveness and awareness. These two talks guide us in awakening from this trance, and discovering how within desire is the longing that can carry us to true belonging.

In this talk, Tara explores: 

- how the “wanting mind” pulls us away from presence and freedom.
- how unmet needs fuel craving and why substitutes never bring lasting joy.
- the suffering of identifying with desire and how mindfulness offers release.
- using the RAIN practice to recognize, allow, and soften the wanting mind.
- tracing back desire to discover love, belonging, and freedom already here.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Greetings. We offer these podcasts freely and your support really makes a difference.

0:06.0

To make a donation, please visit tarabrock.com. Namaste. Welcome, friends.

0:31.0

There's a kind of one-liner from Alcoholics Anonymous that says one drink may make you feel like a new person and then

0:39.3

the new person has to have a drink. And I was thinking of it because most people I know have

0:47.6

habits that they want to change and they range from mildly unhealthy to real life-threatening

0:53.3

addictions. But whatever the level of harm, part of the suffering is knowing, okay, this is bad for me,

1:02.0

I should be able to change it, what's wrong with me that I can't.

1:06.0

You might know that one.

1:09.0

So in both Buddhism and Western psychology, the understanding of grasping,

1:16.1

of holding on tightly to experiences, whether it's our roles, you know, our identities,

1:23.0

it's a natural part of being human. It's not a mistake.

1:27.6

You know, in fact, it's part of how we navigate existence, that kind of holding on.

1:32.6

And yet when grasping takes over, it morphs into suffering.

1:37.0

And we see it enmeshed relationships, that restless chase for the next pleasure, addictions,

1:44.0

compulsions,

1:45.2

is the habits that make us feel trapped.

1:48.7

So in our current world, these energies of grasping an addiction are intensifying,

1:56.6

and that means that they're in the atmosphere, they're affecting us.

2:01.6

And collectively we're caught in a real web of addictive behaviors,

2:06.1

whether we think of the pull of sugar, endless scrolling on screens to compulsive shopping,

2:14.2

binge watching, overworking, numbing ourselves with substances. And on a larger scale,

2:20.8

this same grasping shows up in overconsumption that we know about, the addiction to fossil fuels,

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