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Derek And Leo Debate About "Pickup", Online Dating, And What Young Men Should Focus On

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Health & Fitness, Science, Education, Self-improvement

4.9806 Ratings

🗓️ 8 March 2021

⏱️ 17 minutes

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0:00.0

The weird thing is I've never in my whole life approached a woman until today.

0:04.5

And so I never learned that.

0:06.3

So right now, Derek, I have still the same problem you have, I guess, or not you have,

0:10.5

but had as a kid, or pickup artist had or wanted to have it, or not wanted to have had,

0:15.8

which is that I'm, you know, I'm obviously scared of rejection, right?

0:20.4

So I've never approached any woman in my whole life because of that reason.

0:24.4

But instead, I think I didn't develop something as potent as what Chris did.

0:30.6

And because maybe mine worked quicker.

0:33.6

But what I sort of realized on my own was subconsciously was this.

0:39.3

Women would recognize who they would, okay, this is going to be very sexist guys.

0:44.5

And I'm not sexist.

0:45.6

I'm married.

0:46.2

I love my wife.

0:47.1

My wife is pregnant with the daughter.

0:48.8

I love women.

0:49.9

I'm just explaining this for the 18 year old guys that may be insecure, 17 year old guys that are insecure, that want to be confident with a woman. So from that perspective, I just, I'm just explaining this for the 18 year old guys that may be insecure, 17 year old guys that are insecure,

0:55.0

that want to be confident with the woman. So from that perspective, I just, I'm going to be

0:59.0

a little bit like, I'm going to stereotype women a little bit. So generally what I noticed was this.

1:04.0

Woman would sense when you go out in a group with your male friends or even with your female friends,

1:10.0

what your power position was in that group. If your male friends or even with your female friends, what your power

1:11.5

position was in that group. If your male friends looked up to you, they sensed that. You could be

1:16.9

as ugly as me. I'm not a good looking fellow. And you stand there and be and your friends respect

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