Deprogramming Abuse, Kirk Dreams, and Codependency
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.5 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 23 February 2024
⏱️ 89 minutes
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00:00 How can I open up in therapy?
10:07 What am I feeling?
30:30 Is there a way to separate without leaving?
34:11 r/Therapist meme
43:19 OPP
44:24 Kirk dreams
1:01:54 Can someone have multiple personality disorders?
1:04:29 Can you heal a parentified sibling relationship?
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February 23, 2024
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| 0:00.0 | Hey Deservant listeners, I thought I would answer some patron emails. |
| 0:04.1 | This first email is from highest tier patron, anonymous patron. |
| 0:09.5 | She says, hi Kirk, I have been listening to the podcast for quite a while and almost using it as homework and ways to continue finding understanding and healing from my traumas. |
| 0:21.0 | I've been diagnosed with complex PTSD, borderline tendencies, and reactive |
| 0:26.1 | attachment disorder due to adoption and abuse. I've experienced emotional, sexual, and |
| 0:32.3 | physical abuse. I've been emotional, sexual, and physical abuse. |
| 0:34.0 | I've been in therapy for years and have seen some of the benefits. |
| 0:38.8 | The problem I find myself running into is fear in opening up about my current relationship in therapy. |
| 0:46.0 | I desperately want to leave my relationship. |
| 0:49.8 | So just chime in here, I kind of worded that funny. What she's saying is that she |
| 0:54.8 | wants to leave her partner but she has a hard time opening up about it in |
| 0:58.7 | therapy. Okay. I desperately want to leave my partner. It's very toxic and at times very verbally abusive, but I feel |
| 1:06.5 | unable to leave. My unhealthy attachment styles, coupled with a lifetime of traumas have made me feel helpless. |
| 1:14.0 | I know that therapy takes time and I can't magically wake up tomorrow ready to leave. |
| 1:20.0 | I'm wondering if you could just give some advice on little ways I can begin |
| 1:24.3 | de-programming my unhealthy attachment. Are there little things I should be doing |
| 1:30.9 | daily? Are there ways to begin separating myself without just leaving? |
| 1:37.0 | Thanks for all you do. It has helped me invest more into therapy and doing the work to heal. |
| 1:43.0 | End of email. |
| 1:44.2 | Well, anonymous highest tier patron. |
| 1:47.8 | Let me get into this. |
| 1:49.7 | So what you're asking, well first off, I'm imagining to be just |
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