Welcome to let it be easy with Susie Moore.

I want to talk to you today about defining moments.

Oh, defining moments.

If you and I've been in real life,

often a question that I'll ask you, it's one of my just

favorite things to talk about is, you know, tell me about a defining moment in your life.

It's incredible, my friend, what people come up with when I ask this question.

People say things like, you know, starting or maybe ending a relationship.

Maybe something happened, maybe you just woke up one day and you had this moment of perfect clarity, and you made a change.

Or sometimes I hear, you know, it was when I decided to move, to move city, to move country, maybe to move away from family and what's familiar.

Some people say, you know, a real defining moment for me was saying yes to something that felt really scary and saying yes to that

thing maybe just change the trajectory of your work your your life in some cases.

These defining moments I feel like we don't get them often, which is why they are so defining and pivotal, but when we experience them, we know it's like a shockwave in some cases and in other cases it's just

this quiet knowing and it's something that you can't shake. It feels almost as if it happens

to you. Like these are finding moments, they show up in your life and you just know something. It's not you believe something. It's not like you feel a certain way. It's just a knowing. And it's almost as if in those moments

you are then very clear on what to do next. And I want to share with you a defining moment that I had. It was 2014 and I was a student at NYU,

so New York University studying life coaching.

Because I had a full-time job,

it was a Saturday morning because I had to do this class,

the classes at NYU at the evenings and at the weekends.

And I remember, you know, Saturday morning,

it was spring, so it was crisp in New York,

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