Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y’all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!!

Today marks a first on The Refined Collective Podcast… I have three guests on at the same time. Why? Because I just needed to talk to all of the hosts of the Nights at the Round Table Podcast. My guests are actress/comedian, Anjelah Johnson; singer/songwriter/producer, Manwell Reyes; and story-teller/preacher Brandon Smith. In this episode of TRC, we talk a lot about deconstruction, sex, and doubts. All four of us love God but have a different spiritual journey with God— and that is okay.

Manwell’s Deconstruction

• “I find myself more on the sides of people questioning than the people who swear to the good Lord Jesus that they’re correct.” -Manwell Reyes

Brandon’s Deconstruction

• “I’m allowed to have doubts and that is perfectly okay. I believe more in Jesus today than I did when I thought I had it all figured out.” -Brandon Smith

Anjelah’s Deconstruction

• “Something is not sitting right about being a Christian if that is what being a Christian is.” -Anjelah Johnson

Resources

• For all things Manwell’s music, go to ManwellReyes.com.
• For all things Anjelah, go to Anjelah.com.
• Check out Laugh on Beat to keep up with all things NATRT here.
• Check out Nights at the Round Table on iTunes here.
• Listen to my episode on Nights at the Round Table here.
• Buy Brian Zahnd’s Water to Wine: Some of My Story here.
• Buy John Stott’s book Your Mind Matters here.

What came up for you today?

What questions are you afraid of asking?

Why aren’t you asking them?

What things have you accepted as true without doing your own research?

Next week, the hosts of the Nights at the Round Table Podcast are back for part two of our conversation where we talk all about sex. Specifically, if they had to do it all over again, would they still wait until marriage to have sex?

The countdown is ON for my book, Sexless in the City: A Sometimes Sassy, Sometimes Painful, Always Honest Look at Dating, Desire, and Sex. It’s coming out in just over a month and you can still pre-order! It would mean so much to me if you did. Head over to sexlessinthecitybook.com to grab your copy!

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