Deconstructing Patriarchy in Polygamous Fundamentalism and Beyond - with advocate Shirlee Draper
Breaking Down Patriarchy
Amy McPhie Allebest
4.9 • 654 Ratings
🗓️ 26 December 2025
⏱️ 86 minutes
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Summary
Amy is joined by Shirlee Draper of Cherish Families to hear her courageous account of leaving the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and a polygamous marriage, sharing personal stories, exploring the alarming similarities between the explicit patriarchy of the FLDS Church and the allegedly more egalitarian world beyond it, plus discussing the practical work we can all be doing to help while avoiding condescension.
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Shirlee Draper is a former member of the Fundamentalist Latter-Day Saints community. She holds an MA in Public Administration and is the Director of Operations for Cherish Families, a non-profit organization providing compassionate support to individuals and families from polygamous backgrounds.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Breaking Down Patriarchy. I'm Amy McPhee, all the best. It is a bittersweet feeling to introduce |
| 0:08.6 | the last podcast episode of Breaking Down Patriarchy before our finale. It's the last time I'll be |
| 0:15.9 | interviewing a guest in this format like I've done every week for the past five years. But there's no need to be |
| 0:23.0 | sad because first of all, this isn't the last podcast episode. Make sure you catch our finale |
| 0:28.0 | next week. And also because this is not the end. Listeners, please just hop on over to YouTube |
| 0:33.6 | where Breaking Down Patriarchy is continuing to produce incredible content. |
| 0:39.1 | And now, for today's episode, I could not be more excited and honored about our topic |
| 0:45.5 | and our guests today. I'm joined by Shirley Draper, who grew up in the FLDS Church, which |
| 0:52.3 | still practices polygamy, and she is now the director of operations |
| 0:56.8 | for Cherish Families, an organization that provides compassionate support to individuals and families |
| 1:02.8 | in need of help, primarily from polygamous backgrounds. This is the work of breaking down patriarchy |
| 1:10.0 | that is in a realm that has been really hard for me to even look at, let alone really deeply understand. |
| 1:17.5 | And so I am so excited and so honored that Shirley agreed to join me today. |
| 1:22.3 | Thank you so much for being here, Shirley. |
| 1:24.7 | Thank you for having me. This is an honor for me. |
| 1:27.6 | So I want to just get right into your personal story, introduce listeners to who you are, |
| 1:33.3 | but I think even before we can introduce you, we need to understand the context. And we have a lot |
| 1:39.5 | of listeners who are familiar with maybe what people think of as the mainstream LDS Church, |
| 1:45.0 | but we also do have a lot of listeners who aren't even too familiar with the LDS Church. |
| 1:48.9 | So could you just give us a little kind of primer on the LDS Church, the FLDS Church, |
| 1:56.3 | how they're the same, how they're different, and then how that kind of set the stage or set the |
| 2:02.9 | landscape for the world that you came into when you were born. |
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