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All My Relations Podcast

Decolonizing Sex

All My Relations Podcast

Matika Wilbur & Temryss Lane

Native, Documentary, Pop Culture, Society & Culture, Relationships, Indigenous, Native American, Society, Contemporary Native American Culture

53K Ratings

🗓️ 19 March 2019

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Join us for a second discussion with Sisseton Wahpeton Oyate Dr. Kim Tallbear on All My Relations. We'll explore Kim's “life project” of critical polyamory, her journey through feminism, her processes of writing in, with, and for community, and Kim treats us with some of her poetry, the “Critical polyamorist 100s”.


AMR so far has explored our relationships between community, land, food, and kin. Now we have a chance to dive into what it means to be in good relation with other humans (on a sexual and non sexual level), while maintaining and balancing our responsibilities to our other relations, and questioning a hierarchy that places human relations first. Kim is never “single,” she is always in committed relationships with human and non-human relations.



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0:00.0

I just can't get behind monogamy. It's settler imposed.

0:03.3

You know, until you have worked hard for your monogamy

0:07.0

and a non-monogamous society, don't tell me it was your choice.

0:10.0

You know, because you have to work really, really hard

0:12.6

to be non-monogamous and in an open.

0:15.2

And you know, monogamous are way more comfortable with cheating

0:18.6

than they are with this. Way more comfortable. They'd rather do that.

0:30.0

Sorry.

0:42.1

All my relations.

0:44.0

Hi, I'm Matika. I belong to the Swinamish and Tlailit people.

0:48.0

I'm a photographer and the creator of Project 5.62.

0:51.3

And I'm Adrienne. I'm a citizen of the Cherokee Nation,

0:54.3

a scholar and the writer behind the blog Native Appropriations.

0:58.0

Well, welcome back to all my relations with Dr. Kim Talbear.

1:02.1

We're going to take a moment to do some heart talk.

1:05.0

Heart talk.

1:06.3

Okay.

1:07.0

And so, you know, we...

1:10.0

I don't want to speak for Adrienne, but I have been so inspired by your work,

1:13.2

both by your blog and by your book and just the fact that you are a writer.

1:17.0

Because I'm a writer. I don't actually often say that,

1:22.3

but I write quite a bit.

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