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Sober Friends

Decoding the Big Book - Working with Others

Sober Friends

Matt J

Alcohol Free, Alcoholics Anonymous, Recovery, Dry January, Spirituality, Sober, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Sobriety, Sober Curious, Addiction, Religion & Spirituality, 12 Steps

4.2718 Ratings

🗓️ 1 December 2023

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Send us a text Decoding the Big Book, is sourced from "Writing the Big Book, by William Schaberg. We highly recommend this book. Click here to purchase the book on Amazon. In this compelling episode, we unravel the backstory before the 12 steps were formulated and how Bill's four years of helping other alcoholics shaped AA's foundational principles. Bill's relentless dedication, even during his shaky moments, led to a chance encounter that changed the course of history. Join us a...

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0:00.0

Welcome to Decoding the Big Book, a special limited series of the Sober Friends podcast.

0:10.7

Researched and sourced from writing the big book by William Sheaberg, the purpose of each episode is to provide context and history for each chapter of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, followed by a

0:22.9

reading of the chapter from the fourth edition. Each section is marked by chapters, so feel

0:28.6

free to skip ahead to what you're interested in and leave the rest.

0:47.7

Chapter 7 of the big book, Working with Others, was actually written before the steps were formulated, even though it is prefaced as being about step 12.

0:54.7

Bill had been helping other alcoholics for almost four years at this point, with his relationship with Towns Hospital providing him with an almost unlimited stream of prospects. This chapter was easier to write than the

1:01.6

one on agnostics, or even Bill's own story due to his prior experience working with other

1:07.8

alcoholics. Bill's early work had helped both the New York and Akron groups find common ground

1:13.8

on two foundational principles for Alcoholics Anonymous.

1:17.9

That the message of recovery is best delivered from one alcoholic speaking directly to another,

1:24.0

and that reaching out to help another person is the single most effective way to

1:28.7

ensure your own continued sobriety. These ideas were based on Bill's own experience and

1:34.9

confirmed by almost every other early member since then. Bill's faith in this progress was

1:42.5

established in May 1935 when he traveled to Ohio with a team of investors in a proxy fight over National Rubber Machinery, a small Akron tool company.

1:53.8

It was Bill's first real work since leaving Towns Hospital the previous December, and he wanted desperately to succeed.

2:03.0

Should the takeover be successful,

2:09.5

Bill was promised the presidency of the company. It soon became clear there were not enough proxy votes for the takeover to be successful and his partners left Bill behind to fight on alone.

2:16.0

Stranded, he was left with just a few dollars in his pocket. Based with

2:21.1

this business failure and only five months sober, Bill felt his recovery was on shaky ground.

2:27.2

Alone now in the hotel, I paced up and down the lobby. There was a bar at one end, a church

2:32.9

directory at the other. I would look into the bar where, it being Saturday afternoon, the local boys and girls were beginning to get an edge on.

2:40.0

Then I would wander out and look absently at the church directory, listing the services to be held the next day.

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