Decentring Men: How to Build a Life That Doesn't Revolve Around Romance
To My Sisters
To My Sisters
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🗓️ 6 April 2025
⏱️ 51 minutes
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Sisters, it’s time to take back our power! Society often teaches women to prioritize romantic relationships above all else—but what happens when we decenter men and focus on our own joy, ambition, and purpose? In this episode, we’re unpacking the subconscious ways we seek male validation and how shifting the focus back to ourselves impacts friendships, careers, and self-worth.
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| 0:32.5 | Listen to your blood. |
| 0:36.1 | And in today's episode, we are going to be talking about decentering men and building a life |
| 0:42.7 | that doesn't revolve around romance. |
| 0:45.1 | Get them out of here. |
| 0:46.3 | With this rising trend of decentering men, the aim is for women to cultivate joy, ambition |
| 0:52.3 | outside of men. When we center men or when we allow something to be |
| 0:57.9 | centred that we don't necessarily have a say in, we can often feel like a caged bird. Maybe they |
| 1:03.3 | have put this unspoken pressure on you to like constantly be prim and proper because a man could |
| 1:10.6 | be watching girl we're |
| 1:11.6 | decentering men we're getting rid of men yeah yeah yeah completely we're just getting rid of men |
| 1:16.1 | it's not decentering men is not about getting rid of men completely it's about changing their |
| 1:22.1 | position in your life you finally get the man whose gaze you've been trying to satisfy and you know |
| 1:27.4 | that culture has told you this is the sort of gaze you've been trying to satisfy and you know that culture has |
| 1:28.6 | told you this is the sort of man that exists this is the thing that a man wants and then you get |
| 1:33.0 | the man that god is given you and it's like he's not like that oh no you know and now what |
| 1:46.6 | hello and welcome to the To My Sisters podcast. |
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