December & The Carrot Dangling Abuser - Domestic Violence, Narcissist Abuse, IPV

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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4.7 • 792 Ratings

🗓️ 17 April 2023

⏱️ 83 minutes

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Summary

December and her future ex-boyfriend became fast friends through their local music scene. December felt seen for the first time, but the relationship December wanted was dangled in front of her like a carrot on a moving stick. Always out of reach, yet not. It's a story of triangulation, gaslighting, minimization, adoption, fear, control, isolation, suicide attempts, suicide threats, physical abuse, sexual coercion, push/pulls, self acceptance, put downs, self worth, despair, relief, the player, financial abuse, lies, fake illnesses, jealousy, hypocrisy, self defense, and much more. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses suicide attempts, suicide threats, sexual coercion, and physical abuse in graphic detail. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com The podcast Strictly Stalking can be found by, clicking here. Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Thank you to our sponsor NEW MAJORITY VENTURES. To listen to their new podcast, Porch Talks, click here. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named December,
0:06.7	and December was in a toxic relationship with a carrot-dangling abuser.
0:11.3	It's a story of self-worth, isolation, push-pulls, triangulation, and financial abuse.
0:20.0	Music triangulation and financial abuse. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
0:43.7	I am Brandon Chadwick and with me today, we have December.
0:50.6	How are you?
0:52.4	Doing really good, Brandon.
0:54.7	Well, thank you very much for being here.
0:58.7	And if you want to be a guest on our show like December is today,
1:03.1	please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com.
1:06.5	Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form.
1:09.1	When you click on that button, it takes you to our guest form page. There, you can read all of our instructions and either send us an email
1:15.0	at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form and press to submit button. And please
1:20.6	do send it in the format that we ask for. And today, you are going to hear December's story, and it's a little different from some others,
1:31.2	as December and her ex aren't officially a couple for a very long time in this story.
1:37.3	It begins as a friendship with a really built-in, long game dangling carrot.
1:43.0	And a big content warning for this episode.
1:46.2	We have graphic discussion of sexual coercion, suicide attempts, suicide threats, and
1:51.5	physical abuse in this episode.
1:54.6	So if this isn't for you, please turn this episode off.
1:58.9	So with that being said, I'll get out of my way and your way.
2:04.1	December, the floor is now yours.
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