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Flightless Bird

Death Doulas

Flightless Bird

David Farrier

Comedy, Flightless Bird, Documentary, Society & Culture, David Farrier

52.4K Ratings

🗓️ 19 November 2024

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

In this week’s episode, David calls his friend Rosabel to see what she thinks about dying, and learns that Rosabel has put him in her will! Rob and David then attempt to face their own fear of death by looking at death doulas in America - a profession born in the USA in 1998, when a foundation in New York sponsored a conference on end of life care, where a Jewish professor talked about the importance of helping the “seriously ill” during the dying process. David meets several doulas, including Alua Arthur and Kathleen Hasay. David also speaks about his experience attending a death workshop, and asks Rob some questions from the Death Deck of cards - which uses humor to talk about death and dying. Flightless Bird on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@flightlessbirdpodcast Flightless Bird t-shirts: https://www.webworm.store/merch/flightless-bird Contact Flightless Bird: [email protected] Alua Arthur’s Death Doula School: https://goingwithgrace.com/about/ Alua’s book Briefly Perfectly Human: https://www.aluaarthur.com/ The Death Workshop David attended: https://onedowndog.com/event/workshop-death-awareness-1024/ CA Advance Healthcare Directive: https://www.courts.ca.gov/documents/Advanced-HealthCare-Directive-Form_031620.pdf The Death Deck: https://thedeathdeck.com/

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, David.

0:08.7

Hi, Rosabel. How are you?

0:10.8

I'm good. How are you?

0:12.6

I've got a bit of a croaky throat. I think I've got a cold maybe again.

0:16.8

I was thinking, I've been waking up feeling like I'm about to get sick.

0:21.9

Do you think that's because we have some kind of a deep friendship connection maybe?

0:26.2

Yeah, we just copy each other.

0:28.0

So today's episode, in order to be a bit more lighthearted and upbeat,

0:32.8

we're going to be sort of talking about death and dying.

0:36.4

Hmm, that's fun.

0:38.4

Do you have any thoughts on death?

0:42.5

What comes to mind?

0:44.0

We all do it, don't we?

0:45.7

That's something that everybody gets to experience.

0:52.7

Well, I think what it makes me think about is how we have very different relationships

0:57.7

to death because I feel like you're quite worried about it or it sort of shapes your

1:04.8

life in quite a different way to how it shapes mine.

1:07.7

I feel not like I'm ready. I'm not ready for death, but...

1:12.7

Ready now.

1:16.5

I'm not, it doesn't, like, I don't wake up worried about it in the same way that I think

1:22.2

you do, but I do worry about losing people around me. Do you have a will?

1:27.9

Yeah, I do. I actually just changed my will. you have a will? Yeah, I do.

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