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The Girl Defined Show

Dear Single Sister, don't SETTLE for a guy who doesn't truly LOVE God

The Girl Defined Show

Bethany Beal and Kristen Clark

Religion & Spirituality, Christian Woman, Christian Girl, Girldefined, Womanhood, Christian Advice, Christian Teen, Society & Culture, Christian Dating, Christianity, Girl Defined

4.22.2K Ratings

🗓️ 2 May 2022

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Send a text Ep. 075 - Don’t settle for a guy who isn’t interested in honoring God with his life. No matter how cute or funny he is, it’s not worth it in the end. Settling is never worth it. Don’t lower the bar for a guy who’s cute and charming, but lacks godly character and a genuine love for God.⁣ ⁣Don’t allow yourself to fall for a guy who makes you laugh, but cares only for himself. Don’t stay with a guy who says he loves you, but constantly pressures you to compromise. ⁣As sat...

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0:00.0

Today on The Girl Define Show, we are talking about not settling for a guy who doesn't truly love God.

0:05.8

And you may be thinking, okay, well, how do I know? How do I know if he loves God?

0:08.8

How do I know if he's just like, taking me for a ride and he just wants something specific or he's rushing forward in this.

0:14.1

Like, how do I know?

0:15.4

Chris and I are both going to share our stories.

0:17.2

I mean, I remember settling.

0:19.2

I remember deep in my heart knowing when I was in a specific relationship.

0:22.5

I knew, like, deep in my heart, I knew there were issues.

0:24.8

I knew there were problems, but I was shoving them under the surface.

0:27.8

I was denying the wisdom of others because I wanted what I wanted.

0:31.3

I'll go into more detail in that in just a minute, but I promise you,

0:34.3

by the end of this episode, if you are in a relationship or you know someone who's in a relationship,

0:38.3

that is not truly God honoring.

0:40.1

That isn't like, it just got problems and you're struggling to admit it.

0:44.6

You are going to have wisdom by the end of this to discern and to know what steps to take,

0:48.9

to know if you should start like seeking wisdom.

0:51.4

Maybe you should break up.

0:52.8

Like, if you're feeling nervous about that, we are going to unpack practical steps,

0:56.4

practical info, to know what to look for, to know how to take steps forwards in this.

1:01.1

You were going to feel encouraged, you were going to feel inspired, and ultimately,

1:04.4

you're going to have wisdom to know what to do with your relationships.

1:08.2

Stick with us.

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