Hello and welcome to Dear Kev, the show where I give you the best, worst advice on the planet.

As always, you can submit your question to Deerkev at kevonstage.com.

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With that, first question.

Dear Kev, me and my girl, dear Kev, me and my girl have been together for four years now.

High school sweethearts. We live in Tupperu, Washington, where everything is very diverse.

My family loves her and her family loves me, except for her older sister. At all family events, she got something to say about me being like.

Now I have thick skin, and I'm not bothered by it, but I ain't just going to let people talk down to me.

My girl just say talk back, but I don't really want to jeopardize a relationship I have with the rest

of her family. I would never say anything out of pocket, but how do I shut it down without

ruining relationships or really disrespecting her? Okay, Chad, here's what you do.

You learn how to play Spades.

You challenge her to a game of Spades.

Get your partner, teach your girl if she don't know how to play.

And then when you are amazing at Spades, you can hide your true disdain for her older sister in Spade's trash talk because in spades trash talk everything is able to be said if you are smashing them in spades whatever you say gets

considered trash talk so boom oh baby joker just like your's dad, who don't take care of your kids.

That's why you'd be home alone hitting up your younger sister asking her for extra money.

If you knew how to play the baby Joker right, maybe you can play a baby dad right.

Oh, snap. Chad doesn't sit her up. Boom, y'all set. Just like the rest of your light is set up to be bumped.

You understand me? You're trash. All you do is wait your whole life for your tax return to come back

because you don't know how to set yourself up for a better future. That's why I set you right now.

Y'all went bored. Your children are bored with their life. They never get to go anywhere, do anything because you don't have no money.

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