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Hello, everyone. It's your big sister Cheekies and you've reached my personal voice mailbox for the Dear Cheeky's podcast. I'm here to give you a device on anything

and everything you need help with, whether you're going through a breakup or having issues

with your family, or maybe

you have a question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I want to hear from you.

Remember, these are my thoughts and my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious

issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional. All right. Now go ahead

and leave your message at the sound of the beep.

Hi, cheekies. Just want to start out by saying, I love you and your family and super proud of you. Thank you for this platform.

My question is, I'm having a tough time dealing with the breakup. It's been four months since we broken up. We had a three-year

relationship. We were constantly fighting. There was no intimacy. Come to find out, he had ED,

never wanted to talk about it or deal with it. He didn't want to go anywhere, and he would tell me for me just to go on my own.

But I wanted us to have and share these memories.

So it was just toxic where he was calling me names and constantly criticizing me so but I still miss him I still cry over it

and I recently find out he's on dating naps and one of them is Grindr so he was always animate

that he was straight.

So that one, I'm just having a hard time accepting that or dealing with it.

I just am at a loss of what I do because I'm just constantly crying.

And I don't know what to do. So thank you for your time. Oh, mamacita, I want to give you a hug.

I hear it. I hear it in your voice. And I'm so sorry that you're going through this.

Breakups are hard. You have to give yourself some grace. You have to lean into this pain. I know it's hard. I know it hurts. But we always learn something valuable about ourselves, about what we want and what we don't want in a relationship when we have breakups and when we're in pain.

So this is a time to really sit and sit with that pain and just know that it's going to go away.

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