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Hi, cheekies. I wanted to ask, what would you do in my situation? So I've been with my boyfriend almost six years. I have always asked him, when are we moving in together?

The last time he told me in six months, never happened.

And now my son didn't used to sleep in his own room.

I have my own place.

Now that he does, he is now staying with me, spending the night over at my house every night when it used to be only when the kids were not home, because they would go with their dad.

What would you do now that he's spending the night every night?

He only goes to his house to change to get ready for work.

And when he's off work, he comes and spends the night at my house,

leave them in the morning to get ready for work.

But now, um, in a situation as to, we're basically living together, but not really because

he's at his house paying his own rent. I'm in my house paying my own rent, but he sleeps with me. I don't know what to do.

And every time I bring up the situation, it's your baby daddy is on the way. I don't want to

deal with that. Oh, please. Oh, Maria. Okay. Well, thank you, first of all, for trusting me to give you advice. I promise to give you the best

advice from the bottom of my heart. This doesn't sit right with me because he knew when he started

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