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Hi, Jakeys, I've been defending girls for over a decade.

I love your energy, your personality, just everything.

So I recently went through the passing of my boyfriend of 11 years.

I have a similar situation when it comes to family and betrayal and just all around toxic.

So I'm no longer in contact with my boyfriend's family.

They wasted no time after he passed to show me how they really felt. They took a lot of his belongings from me while I wasn't home. Even though it wasn't much, they knew exactly what they took. They completely flipped a story on me, they went and told lies about me,

his mom talked so bad about me, yet expects to have access to our two kids. My question to you is, what's your advice for

toxic family members after betrayal, after they do you so dirty, after they deny

everything? I would love to know your opinion, thank you.

Oh my gosh Marlene, I'm so sorry, first of all, I'm sorry for your loss.

I can't even imagine.

Um, damn, you know what?

I will tell you that unfortunately, families seem to fall apart after losing a family member.

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