I'm Chris Taylor and I'm here with another sex chat quickie.

The most common reason I hear from wives about why they struggle with oral sex is that they have a really strong gag reflex.

So for today's tip, I just want to give you four ideas on ways that you can deal with the gag reflex, so it doesn't

get in the way of oral sex as much. Number one, try different positions. The angle of your mouth and

his penis and how those connect together can really change what part of the inside of your mouth

is being pressured. Number two, practice, practice,

practice. One of my readers suggested that you practice with a popsicle stick, but you could also

practice with a banana, a popsicle, a fudgecicle, anything that you enjoy, just to kind of help your

mouth get used to having something in it that's a little bit

maybe larger than a typical bite of food. The third tip is to maintain control of the thrusting.

Many women find that if they wrap their hands around the base of the penis, then his thrusting

can't go far enough back to trigger her gag reflex.

And the fourth tip is to try to get him as roused as possible using other means, such as

hand stimulation or strategic on clothing or positioning a mirror in a way that he can see the action. If you do some things that help

enhance his arousal and stimulation, he will be closer to the point of his orgasm than if you

start with oral sex from scratch. So do some other things to lead up to it and you might not have to

deal with concern about the gag

reflex for as much time. So if you're one of those women who struggle with oral sex because of your

gag reflex, see if any of these tips will help.