Dealing with Fear of Losing Kids During Divorce [220]
Flying Free
Natalie Hoffman
5 • 1K Ratings
🗓️ 25 April 2023
⏱️ 42 minutes
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Summary
Note: This episode is a repost of Episode 84. It was too good not to share again with some of our newer listeners who weren’t around way back then! Please enjoy this interview with Wendy Hernandez.
What if I lose my kids? How can I stand up for myself in the process of divorce when my husband seems to hold all the cards? How will I keep it together as I climb this ladder out of hell? These questions haunt women in abusive marriages who want to escape. They wonder how to even begin to prepare for a custody case.
There is hope and there are answers.
In this episode, Wendy Hernandez, a Phoenix family law attorney, divorce coach, founder of the Hernandez Family Law Firm, and creator of the Command the Courtroom YouTube channel and online programs, covers several critical topics for divorcing women.
Key Points From This Episode:
- Why the fear of losing your kids is based on lies/misconceptions.
- The kind of documentation and questions you should have, before or while you are using a lawyer (including how to find a good one or deal with a bad one).
- How EMPOWERING divorce can be as you set boundaries for a NEW life… of HOPE!
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Related Resources:
- Explore Wendy’s YouTube Channel, Command the Courtroom.
- Access her FREE Best Interests Checklist on her website.
- Sign up for the Twenty-One Day Child Custody Challenge to help you along as you navigate custody issues during the divorce process.
- If you are a Christian woman who thinks you may be in an emotionally destructive marriage, learn more at https://flyingfreenow.com
- I'll send you (free!) the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage, which has an assessment to help you figure out if your relationship is abusive or not. All you have to do is hop on my mailing list at https://flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download
- You can also find out about our online education and support program for women of faith at https://joinflyingfree.com
- And finally, if you are a divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, lose weight, have amazing relationships, get things done, build a business or career, and even find a good man (if you want one) - check out Flying Higher at https://joinflyinghigher.com
Having tried over 1,000 cases during her twenty-seven years as a litigator, Wendy is a courtroom warrior who has tackled every type of family law matter — from divorce to child custody and everything in between. Sharing secrets learned from the country’s top law professors at the University of Notre Dame Law School and during her battles on the family law front lines, Wendy is passionate about helping not only her clients, but also those representing themselves, to feel competent, confident and comfortable in the courtroom.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hello beautiful butterflies. Where's the music? Well this episode is going to be a little bit |
| 0:06.8 | different. This is actually episode 220 of the Flying Free Podcast but today we're going to do something I've never done before and |
| 0:16.0 | that's share an episode that aired about three years ago and it's just too good not |
| 0:21.4 | to re-share for our growing audience. |
| 0:24.0 | In this episode, Wendy Hernandez, who is a family law attorney in Phoenix, |
| 0:29.0 | talks about how to prepare for your divorce case. |
| 0:32.0 | You'll find out why the fear of losing your kids prepare for your divorce case. |
| 0:32.6 | You'll find out why the fear of losing your kids |
| 0:35.2 | is based on lies and misconceptions, |
| 0:37.7 | the kind of documentation and questions |
| 0:39.6 | you should have before or while you are using an attorney, including how to find a good one or deal |
| 0:45.7 | with a bad one, and how empowering divorce can be as you set boundaries for a new life of hope. |
| 0:53.6 | Wendy has tried over a thousand cases during her 27 years |
| 0:56.8 | as a litigator, so she speaks from extensive experience. |
| 1:01.2 | Next month, in the Flying Free Program, I'm reteaching a course called Divorce Basics. |
| 1:07.0 | And if you want to get in on that course as it's taught live and you're not already a part of the Flying Free program that I |
| 1:13.5 | encourage you to get your application in now so that you can be with us for this |
| 1:17.7 | course. Just go to join Flying Free.com. You'll have access not only to this course as I'm teaching it live and the |
| 1:25.9 | replays but all of our other courses as well. In addition to weekly coaching and |
| 1:31.4 | community and support within our private forum of |
| 1:35.4 | hundreds of Christian women who are going through the same things you're |
| 1:38.6 | going through in their marriages. In my program we don't tell women that they should get a divorce but we do support |
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