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18Forty Podcast

David Bashevkin: My Dating Story [Re-Release]

18Forty Podcast

18Forty

Judaism, Religion & Spirituality

4.7704 Ratings

🗓️ 12 August 2025

⏱️ 89 minutes

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Summary

This episode was sponsored by Jerry and Esther Williams in honor of 18Forty and Shalom Task Force. 

While we wait for the next new episode of the 18Forty Podcast, we revisit Dovid Bashevkin's 2022 deep dive into the world of dating. As we explore the realm of relationships, Dovid uses his own journey to help us find the proper framework for balancing one’s romantic, religious, and professional identities.  
  • How can one stay connected to their religious self while simultaneously evolving?
  • What’s Dovid’s best advice for dating and marriage?
  • Why are we afraid to commit to no?
  • How can we ensure that the years ahead are the best years yet? 
Tune in to hear a conversation on love, commitment, and commitment to commitment. 

References:

Shalom Task ForceThe Orchard: A Novel by David Hopen 

Tehillim 27:10

Evolving Religiously During Singlehood” on Singled Out Podcast by Zahava Moskowitz

Bambi

Garden State

Dovid Bashevkin on Twitter

Spending the Seder Alone” by Dovid Bashevkin

Solitude, A Philosophical Encounter by Philip Koch

Cast Away18Forty – Rav Moshe Weinberger: Can Mysticism Become A Community? 

Bashert: My One and Only?” on YUConnects CandiDate Podcast

The Paradox of Choice” by Barry Schwartz

The Howard Stern Show: Actor And Comedian Aziz Ansari Visits The Show

Signed, Sealed, Delivered” by Dovid Bashevkin

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to the 1840 podcast where each month we explore different topic balancing modern sensibilities with traditional sensitivities to give you new approaches to timeless Jewish ideas.

0:18.1

I'm your host, David Bischepkin, and this month we're exploring dating,

0:22.2

relationships, commitment, all the good stuff. And I am so excited to announce that this episode

0:27.7

was sponsored by my dearest friends, Esther and Jerry Williams. In honor of, they wrote

0:34.5

David Bishfkin, I'm going to leave that part out, but really in honor of all

0:38.4

those who support Shalom Task Force. Shalom Task Force's organization designed to combat and prevent

0:45.2

domestic violence and foster healthy and safe relationships and families. Their annual breakfast

0:52.0

is Sunday, December 11th, where they have been kind enough to honor

0:57.6

1840 and the work that we are doing.

1:00.4

I will certainly be there.

1:01.8

I hope some of our listeners will be there.

1:04.5

And please check out the Shulham Task Force website to find out more.

1:08.6

That's Shalem, S-H-A-L-O-M, Taskforce.org.

1:13.9

Shulhamtaskforce.org where you can hear more about their upcoming breakfast and all of their

1:19.1

incredibly important work.

1:21.0

So thank you so much to our friends, Jerry and Esther Williams, for the sponsorship of this

1:26.8

episode and the irony of them

1:28.9

sponsoring the episode about my dating story, I hope, is lost on no one, but I can only guess

1:35.8

will be lost on nearly everyone. This podcast is part of a larger exploration of those big, juicy,

1:42.8

Jewish ideas, so be sure to check out 1840.org.

1:46.5

That's 1-8-F-O-R-T-Y dot org, where you can also find videos, articles, recommended readings,

1:52.7

and weekly emails. I feel like I'm always making a disclaimer that I'm nervous about the topic

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