Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago

and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.

I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated.

Hey Gabby I I was going to start with I feel like I went to high school with you and then I realized

It's actually insulting to you because if we went to high school together and implies that we're roughly the same age and we're not if I was a senior in high school you would have been like in the third grade or maybe just an idea.

Yeah, yeah, pretty much. That's funny though. I think that people who watch me on Holly Wire think I'm the same age as you.

That's not sure. Well, do you feel your, how old are you now? Or do you not want to say? No, I think it's so weird that women are scared, like lie about their age

or don't want to say their age.

Like, I think that creates why people like think it's a big deal if you're, you know,

over 30, but I'm 34 and proud of it.

Wow, I met you when you were in my 20, was it 26, 25?

No, I think actually it was 23.

Like we've known each other for almost 10 years. This is why I feel like we went to high school together.

Yeah. Well let me brag about you for a little bit and then we'll get into. I'm actually I'm excited to talk to you.

I'm and talk to you in a long time. Yeah, it's been a while.

It's like we're teaching up for everyone.

Okay, so Gabby hosts for HollyWire on Snapchat in YouTube.

She's gained national attention with her article and video for Cosmopolitan.

I went on 30 dates in three days, which of course we're going to talk about,

and here's what's interesting, date number 31 ended up being her husband. This story was featured in the New York Times.

She's also a former serial dater who literally wrote a book on dating. She has a book called 20 guys you date in your 20s and we'll get into that. It's a

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