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Death, Sex & Money

Dating Was So Hard, Until It Wasn't

Death, Sex & Money

Slate Audio

Careers, Sexuality, Business, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.67.7K Ratings

🗓️ 27 July 2016

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

Katie Heaney wrote a memoir about her lifelong single status. Then she realized she was looking for love in the wrong place.  Support Death, Sex & Money by becoming a monthly sustaining member. Sign up now. Follow the show on Twitter @deathsexmoney and Facebook at facebook.com/deathsexmoney. Sign up for the Death, Sex & Money newsletter at deathsexmoney.org/newsletter. Email us at deathsexmoney@wnyc.org. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Being away from home and just experiencing new things and making myself do things I was uncomfortable with,

0:07.0

I would have to believe made it easier to come to these realizations about myself.

0:18.6

This is death, sex, and money. Don't kill him.

0:19.8

I'm not going to kill him.

0:21.3

The show from WNYC about the things we think about a lot.

0:24.6

Bonus time is just around the corner.

0:26.6

And need to talk about more.

0:28.6

Maybe you're on this.

0:29.8

And 50 other lines to get into a girl's chance.

0:32.7

I'm Anna's sale.

0:36.0

When I first met Katie Haney, she was 27 years old

0:39.4

and totally freaked out about dating.

0:42.3

The points that stress me out are everything up to the date.

0:45.6

And then like towards the end where I start worrying about like,

0:49.2

are we gonna kiss each other?

0:51.5

I can't tell what this guy thinks, you know, how are we going to decide

0:56.5

whether we want to do this again? This was exhausting. I want to go home.

1:01.2

This was two years ago.

1:03.0

She just published a memoir called Never Have I Ever,

1:06.0

my life so far without a date.

1:08.6

And she'd recently left her hometown

1:10.4

to work for Buzzfeet in New York City. So you moved from Minnesota in New York City.

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