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Triumph 111. Sherrod, welcome to the program.

I thank you so much for taking my call.

My pleasure.

Is I getting very anxious when I'm in relationships. So I'll often want to run.

Or maybe a void relationships. So I'm kind of wondering if you give me some advice what can I do to.

Maybe not be anxious in relationships or maybe overcome this.

Well, you expected to get the answer to that in a three minute conversation really.

Probably not, but I was hoping maybe for some pointers.

Well, what do you do to help the other person deal with their anxiety with you because you're a little unpredictable and held back.

So I'm sure whoever you're interacting with as anxiety because they can't always read you and they have to deal with some fears about you.

That if they say or do anything that you might just evaporate.

So what do you think before we fix you? What do you think you could do to make the people you deal with more comfortable? Give me some ideas.

Maybe kind of explain to them a little bit.

Okay, make believe I'm one of those explain it to me.

We're in a relationship. We've been out on two dates. So a bad movie had good hamburgers.

And now you want to explain to me because I tell you, you know, I'm a little nervous because you seem like you're here. You're not here.

I'm a little nervous about you. Come back to me.

I think what I would say is often if I get in a relationship with what I do.

No, sweetheart. Do you know what a role playing is? It means you do it at the moment.

You just took me out on a date. I just told you I'm not comfortable because I don't feel you're comfortable.

And it's making me a little anxious and I actually say that to you.

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