What's up? Hey guys, welcome to this edition of the Shalin Show. It's Car Smart Friday.

Put your seat belt on because we are going for a ride.

Okay, well first of all, thank you for those of you who subscribe or follow the show on whatever podcast

that you listen to because you had to wait for it a little bit today.

Fridays, I don't always, it's green honey, bread's driving.

And I'm driving the passenger seat. I wish you could see the look you just gave me.

I don't always get the Friday edition up early early because sometimes I actually recorded on Friday and this is one of those days.

I'm recording today from the back seat of the car. We're driving home from Palm Springs where we went for Thanksgiving.

And it was nice because it was like the first Thanksgiving and I don't know, 26 years that we didn't like end up baking and hosting and doing the traditional Thanksgiving thing.

Isn't this the first Thanksgiving that we just like, we're in a hotel?

Yeah, I can't remember any one that we didn't host to that we didn't.

We always host because I like to host. I like to go on Pinterest and look for a table scape and come up with something really unique.

I mean, I like to go all out for Thanksgiving and for Christmas. I enjoy hosting.

I like to do like a really cool table scape as you know, I like to be creative. I like to, I like to craft.

So it's, I love doing that. Brezza great at baking or cooking the turkey.

I like doing all the sides and the stuffings and all those things. But this year Brett was like, I really don't want to do, I don't want to host a Thanksgiving.

I'm like, okay, but I really, I do want to do that. And he's like, all right, well, then fine, we'll do it.

And I said, no, I'm just saying, I do and you don't. So let's talk about it.

Tell me why you don't want to do it. And, you know, he kind of explained all the reasons and family was going to be gone and there's so much going on.

And, you know, he's just like, I just, I just want to chill. I really just want to chill.

I'm like, okay, then we don't have to do it. See, and that's what you do. You have discussions and a marriage.

You say what you want to do. I say what I want to do. We talk about why we just want to do that. And then you just reach a compromise.

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