So, guys, Derek, more place, more days.com.

Today we're going to be talking about why going to the movies is a terrible first date and just terrible first dates in general.

So this is a huge mistake.

I am going to save you guys from making and makes you look like you don't know what the fuck you're doing, essentially, is, like when you are in your late teens early early 20s you have a lot of delusions

about what the ideal you know blueprint is for the the best date you know you're just

starting to date maybe if you're just getting into this stuff called approaching

online dating whatever it is and when you're trying to figure out you know what's uh what am i going to do like where

do i take the chick what do i do i how do i how do i communicate with her how do i fucking what do

i say it what do i do you have to remember too the situation i was in when i started was i was

severely underachieving in high school so i basically went out of my way to overcompensate by becoming like a

fucking pua where i would go hard as fuck and i did like dozens of approaches a week to the point where

i was going on a date almost every other day pretty much and if i wasn't on a date, I was either at the gym,

I'm fucking cranking my mind out, or I was approaching,

or I was downtown going to clubs and shit

and trying to approach there and trying to pick chicks up.

And that was like my life for like a few years, to be honest.

And glad it's, you know, sort of behind me now but i mean at the time when i was first

starting to like get a lot of numbers and setting up dates and whatnot one of the things i was like

fuck well what do i do now i have some numbers i can go on some days like where do i take them what do i

do and my fucking stupid logic at the time was find out like

the best way to not have to talk to them on the date, which isn't a terrible strategy actually

if you're like getting a drink, you know, encouraging them to talk more is a good strategy. But

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