What's up, Badi Bees? I'm Brianna, mom, wife, serial entrepreneur, and host of the badass basic bitch podcast.

Each week, I sit down with a seemingly ordinary woman who's doing extraordinary things,

and I get to share her story with you. So let's go. Buckle up as we're going to get real and dive

into the shit nobody talks about. Welcome to the Batty B Club. Just because something is hard doesn't mean it's bad.

Lots of things that we do are hard.

And Adam and my marriage has been extremely hard at times.

I mean, really, really hard.

And it has been bad at times.

But we also have had hard times that have really made us both grow

and evolve and made our life so much more beautiful in the end that I do think that people

need to say to themselves, okay, just because something I'm dealing with is hard, doesn't make

it bad. Welcome back to another episode of Badass Basic Bitch.

On today's episode, we have with us Danielle Silverstein from New Jersey, who with her

husband Adam runs Marriage and Martini's, the Instagram, and the podcast. So if you haven't listened to Marriage and Martini's, go and listen to it now, put it on your list. It's one of my favorites. It's all about real life talk. So welcome, Danielle. I am so excited that you're here today. Thank you. I'm so excited to be here. Thanks for having me.

So why don't you tell us a little bit more about

yourself first for any of our listeners that may not know who you are? Sure. So I, like you said,

I live in New Jersey. We're in like the middle of suburbia. I have three kids, 16, 13, and 10, a girl and two boys. And my husband and I have been married,

Adam and I have been married about 20 years. And we have gone through it all about four years ago.

We really like hit rock bottom in many, many ways. And that's kind of where the creation of

marriage and martinis came from sort of as just this strange journey that neither of us have any

experience or background in. So I have no idea what made us think we could possibly do this. But we did. And thankfully,

you know, it's been just awesome and hard and vulnerable, you know, all the things. But it's really

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