I think where they want to hide is in this appreciation for beauty.

Like I almost get that sense and when they're talking about attraction or orientation that there's an appreciation they have for the male form or something if they're male.

Right. And that that doesn't have to lead into anything sexual, but the problem with that in my mind is that they make the jump in like a thousand different ways in their movement from its

Like you gave the example of the heart skipping a beat or whatever I mean but they

There's whole talks on

Queer culture and and being married to someone who's in a heterosexual relationship being married in that but still

identifying.

Covenant friendships.

Right.

And it's to me, and like you're not Leonardo da Vinci appreciating the male form at that point

You're you're saying something a little more than that you're signaling that it's not just an appreciation but a you want to be with them.

And that's where that's where something I think can be right in

heterosexual sense and wrong when it's something you use a

a covenant of something God forbid so I think of it that way the where it it can be

right if you're pursuing someone for the purpose of marriage to have it to appreciate them but also have this sort of

inclination towards you know one day if things go well that you're going to

there's going to be a fulfillment of that

relationship and I mean this is you can't really have a romantic relationship

without that there has to be some kind of I mean what are you doing if you're dating and you're not you don't want to pursue that somewhere down the line you're just you're wasting time so I think there is this sort of foreshadowing or this this anticipation of something that is to come that God intended for good purposes in a rightly ordained relationship.

And they want to take that, whatever that is, and I don't know if I can fully quantify that because love is and and I mean even

Paul talks about that there's a mystery it would Christ in the church and the marriage relationship.

And there's so much of the mystery there.

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