The sexual revolution didn't happen all at once. It came in throbbing waves.

The pill, Stonewall, the AIDS crisis, the internet, grinder, prep, doxypep, sniffies.

We have more options than ever before, and yet some still feel lonely.

Swipe culture gives us abundance, but it also trains us to treat each other like custom coffee drinks.

So how do we build intimacy without running a background check on someone?

And why does jealousy still show up like it's paying the rent?

Today, queer activists and marriage and family therapist, Damon L. Jacobs, joins us to

unpack the great queer divide, monogamy versus open relationships.

His web series, Choosing Queer Joy, argues that joy isn't frivolous.

It's revolutionary.

But when we start talking about sex, love, and commitment, the revolution could get real messy, real fast.

I'm Fausto Furnos.

I'm Mark Fillion.

And this is Feast of Fun.

Hello, this is Damon L. Jacobs.

Hi, Damon. It's Fausto.

And Mark from Feast of Fun.

Falstow and Mark!

I'm already having a feast. I'm now having a feast, and I'm having so much fun.

I miss you guys so much.

I miss you, too. It's been a minute.

It's, oh, I tell you.

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