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The Daily Stoic

Daily Stoic Sundays: How a Stoic Deals with Bad News

The Daily Stoic

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Business, 694393, Society & Culture, Daily Stoic, Stoic, Education, Ryan Holiday, Philosophy, Stoic Philosophy, Stoicism, Self-improvement

4.55.3K Ratings

🗓️ 8 March 2020

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Ryan describes how a Stoic can deal with bad news—and not just move past it, but use it to fuel their success.

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0:00.0

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0:12.1

Welcome to the Sunday edition of the Daily Stood Podcast. My name is Ryan Holiday. For over a decade,

0:17.4

I've been writing and thinking and talking about stilicism. And so each Sunday now, we're going to be rolling out a special episode

0:25.4

that will be either me riffing on a number of topics, maybe me riffing or expanding on an article that I've written

0:32.4

or deep diving into an idea that I think is important, that I think you'll benefit from.

0:37.4

So I hope you like it. Support our sponsors who make this episode possible. And of course, keep studying, keep reading, and thank you.

0:47.4

Hello, I'm Hannah and I'm Syrte and we are the hosts of a Redhanded, a weekly tree crime podcast.

0:54.4

Every week on Redhanded, we get stuck into the most talked about cases. From Idaho student killings, the Delphine murders and our recent rundown of the Murdoch saga.

1:03.4

Last year, we also started a second weekly show, Shorthand, which is just an excuse for us to talk about anything we find interesting because it's our show and we can do what we like.

1:11.4

We've covered the death of Princess Diana, an unholy Quran written in Saddam Hussein's blood, the gruesome history of European witch hunting, and the very uncomfortable phenomenon of genetic sexual attraction.

1:21.4

However, the case, we want to know what pushes people to the extremes of human behavior. Like, can someone give consent to be cannibalized? What drives a child to kill? And what's the psychology of a terrorist?

1:32.4

Listen to Redhanded wherever you get your podcast. So, in access our bonus, Shorthand episodes exclusively on Amazon Music, or by subscribing to Wondry Plus in Apple Podcasts or the Wondry app.

1:44.4

The inevitable fact of life is that so-called bad news is going to happen, right? We're going to hear things that we weren't planning to hear, that we didn't want to hear, that hurt, that make us sad, that surprised us.

1:56.4

That's just life. Be wonderful if everyone we knew stayed together. It'd be wonderful if everything worked out. It'd be wonderful if there was never a plane delay. It'd be wonderful if the film was ever killed or wounded. It'd be wonderful if there was only good news.

2:09.4

But the reality is that everyone has gotten bad news, and everyone knows they will continue to get bad news. So, I think the question for the Stokes is, how do we respond to that? How do we deal with bad news?

2:19.4

So, the first thing that Stoke would think about is, let's look at those labels really fast. The Stokes try to be objective as possible. So, they go like, why are we calling this bad news?

2:29.4

Shakespeare's line was nothing neither good nor bad, but thinking makes itself.

2:33.4

But I think going back to Epic Titus, there's the idea that things are objective, our judgment about things are not objective. So, the Stoke market drops 100 points, 500 points. We're quick to call that bad.

2:46.4

But if we had massively hedged against the market, or we had a massively short the market, that would be good.

2:53.4

The event is objective, we just have opinions about it. And realizing that we have these opinions, that we have the power to decide what they are, and that what's good for us might be bad for others. And vice versa is an important way to take the edge off things to go, okay, the event is the event, it's information.

3:09.4

And then that leads into the, I think one of the most important tenants of Stoicism, which is, how do we respond to that thing?

3:15.4

Donald Robertson, one of the great modern writers about Stoicism, he says, you know, the Stoke tells themselves that, sure, life is frightening, the situation might be frightening, but the truly important thing is how we choose to respond.

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