Ask Daily Stoic: How Does a Stoic Deal with Aggressive People?
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🗓️ 7 March 2020
⏱️ 22 minutes
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Ryan talks about the new Daily Stoic offices, reads a selection from The Obstacle is the Way, and answers your questions.
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| 1:51.0 | Hey there, it's Ryan Holiday. I am sitting here in the new daily stoic offices. I don't want to spoil that too much as a bunch is coming related to that. |
| 2:02.0 | But we are in the process of setting up our new office. My desk is here. And one of the first things I put at the desk, I'm staring at it right now, is a small bust I have. |
| 2:15.0 | Of Marcus Aurelias, it was, I think I bought this right before I started writing the obstacles away. It was made in 1820 out of Carrera, Marable. And when I sort of sit and write, it kind of catches my eye. |
| 2:30.0 | And one of the things I like to think about it is that somebody made this 200 years ago, and I think about whose desk it's probably sat on or, you know, somewhere in someone's house that it sat, what it meant to them. |
| 2:44.0 | How many generations of people 200 years is. And at the same time, how instantaneous that is. And actually as I was sitting here thinking I was going to talk to you guys about this, I, I looked up an email that we'd written when I first started the daily stoic daily email. |
| 3:04.0 | And it turned out I wrote this in October 2016. So four years have passed, even since then, like when I was writing it, I was like, you know, 1820, that's almost 200 years. But even, you know, four years have passed since then. |
| 3:18.0 | And at the time is this sort of force that's like, you know, tick, ticking away. And yet these sort of certain ideas or examples or people kind of stand eternal. And I think to me, that's why I have it on my desk. That's what I love about it. That's why it's sort of served as good inspiration for the writing. |
| 3:39.0 | And there's a passage from Matthew Arnold that I really love. We've used it a bunch of times. But he says long after his death, his bust, Marcus Reelis was to be seen in the houses of private men through the wide Roman Empire. |
| 3:54.0 | It may be the vulgar part of human nature, which busy itself, the semblance and doings of living sovereigns. It is the nobler part, which busy itself with those of the dead, these busts of Marcus Reelis in the homes of Gaul, Britain, and Italy, bear witness, not to the intimate frivolous curiosity about princes and palaces, but to their reverential memory of the passage of a great man upon the earth. And when I look at that small bust of Marcus Reelis, I try to make sure that |
| 4:24.0 | my actions honor his memory. I try to think that I want the writing that I do to live up to that example. And yeah, this is just this sort of timeless, still practice, the importance of finding examples or exemplars as Santa, because of choosing yourself a Kato and then displaying their presence in the places that you frequent. And so actually behind this little one, the one I have is maybe about four inches tall. I also have a much, much larger bust. |
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