You're on the virtue

Cassie get in on this what is the mentality what is the thought process behind not

Dad's not telling their daughters that they're beautiful

You the mentality is not building up a young girl's confidence on their looks only

You want to make sure that they prize other things and it can lead to body issues or then feeling like their value comes from their

Looks and it's not just from dad. It's from mom as well

But it's especially from dad like if they grew up and they become part of a heterosexual couple

They'll always look to their male partner for that validation and if they don't get it their self confidence will be shot

What is that's all their daughter has

What if she's not strong in any other area?

But no now there is a philosophy that you actually should be right I was out to dinner with a friend and she's an

Incredibly accomplished woman. She is a doctor. She owns her own business and she has a preteen daughter and

her husband was

I won't say constantly, but was definitely very complimentary of her of her looks something like that's aesthetic

It was telling her she's beautiful, etc

Now in addition to other compliments it I want to establish it wasn't just compliments on looks it was

Intelligent compliments kindness, etc. Like all it was all encompassing, but there was compliments about her looks

And she pulled her husband aside and she goes you have to stop doing that and he's like no

And she's like excuse me and he goes um

Now I I did research and I read a study and it's important for fathers to

Tell their daughters that they're beautiful. It shouldn't be the only thing they tell them because if

Fathers don't instill in their daughters they're beautiful and help build their self confidence

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